Sometimes we don't fall for the wrong people, the problem is usually the absence of compatibility. Two great people but with different views towards life, maybe genotype differences, family feuds/differences, religion, tribalism etc. 

This separation is the painful kind. 

Another painful one is the lovee language differences.. Your ideologies on love differs, so you can't agree, but just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you the best way they know how. 

But in all of these, don't confuse honest breakups with manipulative ones. The ones who can't compromise, the ones who won't treat you right so they make you feel like you are asking for too much. The ones who can't express love and care, the careless ones. They are not the same. 

It's not easy letting go, but sometimes, letting go is the best option. We lose some things to create space for the ultimate gift. 
Do not settle, whatever you desire is out there, jf you can be patient enough, you'd get it. 
Yes! There's no perfect being out there, but they's a perfect person for you. That is what Compatability is all about. 

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  1. Yesssssss... as if you wrote this one for me and about me. God bless you 🙏 ❤️

  2. I think compatibility is multifaceted. What one has to do is figure out which compatibilities are non-negotiable and which ones are not. And I think thus results from through self-analysis and reflection.