Have you ever been asked a question and you are not able to give any honest answer?
Imagine you are asked about your dream job, your dream wedding, or something as simple as your favorite song and you can’t think of a decent answer. Have you ever been in that situation??
Mine has always been things like my favorite meal, a favorite song, and even my favorite genre of music. If you ask some people where they see themselves in the next 5 years, you’d be shocked they can’t predict it.
This is not because you aren’t prepared, it’s not because you don’t have any plans for the future or anything, you just don’t know.
It doesn’t make you less serious about life, you are just living the moment, you enjoy different music or food so you can’t pick one.
Being clueless is normal, it’s okay if you seem lost or not focused, sometimes life just happens to you and as it comes, everything is coordinated, the only thing you’d need to do is live it as it comes.
This is not the opportunity to be careless or not try at all, if you don’t know how to plan your life, it doesn’t mean you are not curious, it just means you don’t know right now. Some people are so clueless their lives are lived for them by others.
But if you are willing to learn, you want to be involved in planning your life, you can. They are coaches for these things, you can even begin with making a vision board. You can do exercises and read articles or books to build your thoughts too.
Being clueless is not a disease, it’s not you being lazy, sometimes it being someone who wants to know these things but don’t know how to go about them.
But if you are willing to learn, please, by all means do.
