In a crowd, yet so lonely

One of the saddest things in the world is loneliness, not  having someone special, and it's not as if you don't have people around you, but what you yearn for is that special someone whom you want to go home to, the one that when your phone rings you wish it's them even though you spoke not too long ago, that one that you want to curl into them under a blanket and feel the warmth of their body while they whisper sweet nothings in your ear. 

No other feeling can beat that, that is why you could be in the midst of friends, family members, and other acquaintances but still feel some sort of emptiness, especially when you know you have no one special to even think of, all you have are your fantasies, and they don't even have faces cos you don't know what they look like. 

This kind of feeling has propelled people into making wrong decisions because they have to control their feelings. Some would start something with maybe someone who has been in their corner for a while just to hold on to the fort, others would just randomly call someone to help curtail the feelings at the moment and end up regretting it. 

I won't say it's easy being alone or to be in a relationship but distant. But I can tell you this, whatever downright  feeling you may find yourself at a certain point in time if you could advise yourself that it is just for a little while, you'd overcome the temptations that come with it. 

I only hope in our waiting, we don't settle, that we don't try to curb our feelings just to satisfy a feeling, and that we have faith in the right time. May all that we want locate and come to us. Amen! 

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  1. “Curb our feelings just to satisfy a feeling” nice article