What is love to me? How do I know that I am loved by you? Is it just what I see? What if it’s not shown right? Is it what you say? How you say it matters I want to be loved Generously, the feeling that of not having any worries.. Not that…
Tag: The Mindset
A Mission to Self Discovery
Apart from being flesh and blood and in quote “dust”, you’re not ordinary. If there could be a throwback on how our being was built with the various entitlements implanted in us as persons, mouths will remain ajar. If the creator had placed everything on a planter of gold, no one will ever be beneficial…
Our Rising Can go beyond just a Mindset
You know one good thing I love about humanity is the connectivity that they groom amongst themselves. Once there is a continuous uproar on a particular issue by different persons, it is being looked upon and debated on then a solution is arrived at. Inconsequentially, no matter how a majority is involved, it can never…
Trying to Correct A Wrong by Informing Your Neigbour About it is Not Judgement
It’s alarming how hard it is to give advice these days. You can’t even condemn bad habits or unethical displays. You tell someone to stop going about sleeping with married men for money, you hear things like; “abeg, no dey judge me. na people like una dey do this thing pass. una go…
The Career driven and the Hustlers
Back in the day, going to school and graduating was a big deal. One’s course was a pride no matter what it was. Going to School is still a big deal, it’s just not highly recommended for some people anymore. It is so now because of the different circumstances our country is facing. Now, most…
Know God, Know Peace… No God, No Peace
Several years ago, I used to be what I call “Self-acclaimed Christian”. I try to do the right thing, I give when I can, I respect people, I always feel guilty about committing sin, I go to church, read my Bible once in a while etc. All of these things I did and…
Self Pity, the Discourager of Happiness
We all have different demons we are fighting. Maybe not everyone, but most of us, but how are we dealing with it? Let’s get personal a bit. I used to wallow in self-pity, I enjoyed telling people about my difficulties more than my success. I used to lie to myself that I don’t like…
Know this and Know Peace. (The Bible is more than a Spiritual Manual)
If you ever think that reading the Bible means being too religious and that you find it hard to read, this means your versatility as a human is somewhat limited as an intellectual that you think you are. The Bible is an advanced philosophical, motivational, and handy manual for any human living on earth. I…
Choose between Perfection & Imperfection and stick with it!
One day a man says to his clients “I have been in this space for the past 25 years of my life so I am PERFECT in what I do for a living” Humans make this statement when they are on the verge of explaining what will profit or uplift them. The keyword in…
The word "Pain" is a very effectual 4 letter word
Pain, an unnecessary important feeling. A feeling that is felt just by saying its name. A feeling that hurts but sometimes referred to as Sweet. Pain, a torment not needed yet can’t be escaped. Emotional pains can be avoided… Not easy, but doable. We let people hurt us with words and…